从记录片开始的时候就已经止不住泪意,Shane说话时那种风轻云淡的压抑让肺里硬生生的疼。不知道是从什么时候开始哭的,但是到最后根本已经哭到止不住。
Shane的曾祖母说,他们是罗密欧与罗密欧。So what?
纪录片里Shane和Tom的朋友们说过很多很经典的话,每一句都值得去思考。关于gay,关于爱,关于宗教,关于天堂。最感人的大概是Shane的家人,对儿子的爱,以及对爱的包容。
只是爱了而已,fuck the mad world!
对Tom的家人其实并没有什么怨念,大概这是人之常情,每一个父母都不愿意让孩子的人生蒙上这样一个所谓的“污点”。有很长一段时间,我的妈妈都在担心我会是同性恋,曾经语重心长地和我谈话,甚至拜托我姐姐从背后小心的试探我。现在想想其实一点也不怪她,那时候的我甚至剃掉了半边头发,不肯穿裙子,终日一副中性的打扮。她从心底里担心我。当然,我并不是。我想,我们不能去指责这些不能接受同性恋的爸爸妈妈们,他们的所接受的思想并不如我们这般开放。
但是我难以接受的是Tom妈妈对Shane的欺骗。她骗Shane会邀请他出席葬礼
Shane, you make me feel like the luckiest guy alive. We should think about all the things we want to do together. Like swimming in the ocean, staying home and watching movies all day when it rains, buying a house, and adopting a dog, and a kid, teaching him how to ride a bike, driving him of his first day of school. All of us sitting at the table with the dog at our feet waiting for us to drop food, going camping and lying on our backs under the stars. We are going to have an amazing life together. I pray we will always have these feelings. My heart belongs to you, Shane.
再见,我的新郎:永失所爱的真实伤痛也许是治疗人世偏见的一剂药
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