Charilie: Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?
Anderson: We accept the love we think we deserve.
Charlie: Can we make them know that they deserve more?
Anderson: We can try.
为什么我们爱上错的人?
我们承受所拥有的爱。
我们可以让他们认识到他们值得拥有更好的吗?
可以试试。
在遇到一个对的人之前,我们总是承受着错的爱情,而接受,往往不是出于选择。爱的本身已经做出了决定。Sam爱上的男人没有一个珍惜她。Patrick爱上一个不敢承认自己性取向的男人。姐姐爱上一个软弱的男人。而男主角Charlie, 在为Sam爱上一个垃圾而感到悲伤的时候,并未意识到自己也终将为他的爱选择承受。他问老师,为什么人选错对象,怎么才可以让他们清醒。
歌曲《Somebody that I used to know》里面有一句话:
Like resignation to the end, always to the end. 从一开始就输给你,于是一直输到底。
在我们没有遇到一个对的人之前,我们从来都是accept the love we think we deserve... we are blind for deserving more.
"Because I know there are people who say all these things don't happen. I know there are people who forget what it's like to be 16 when they turn 17. I know these will be stories some day and our pictures will be old photographes. We'll all become somebody's mom and dad. But right now, these moments are not stories. This is happening. I am here and I am looking at her and she is so beautiful. I can see it, this one moment when you know you are not a sad story. You are alive and you stand up and see the lights on the buildings and everything that makes you wonder and you are listening to that song on the drive and with the people you love most in this world. And in this moment, I swear, we are INIFINITE."
查理是个害羞敏感又孤独的高中生,他的青春充满挫折,却也庆幸,结识了一个开明的老师和两个真正的好友,慢慢开始了一段属于自己的精彩。
反传统的青春电影,没有high歌和party,有的是那段莫名伤感却也肆意欢笑的青春时代。感觉这就是国外的青春,不同于我们的羞涩、腼腆、含蓄,看后很有感触。
影片里,没有明确的主线,但那些片段却让我深刻,温柔的吻,笨拙的舞蹈,渐行渐远的朋友,亲切的教师,懵懂的暗恋,玩耍的开心时刻,让人回忆满满。
这部电影,犹如一篇精美的散文,细细阅读,怅然若失又若有所得,那些过去种种的经历,勇敢的去面对了,便也是美好的回忆。回想起我自己,曾经的自己,不太会说话,没有很多知心朋友,在群体里几乎没有存在感,那种感觉,在看到男主的经历时越发强烈,那种心境,在看片时又回来了~
又或许,每个人都曾是那个“壁花少年”,都有过一段忧愁与开心并存的青涩岁月。
来德国半年多了,今早上在晨曦中听九寸钉的hurt,觉得一切恍惚如梦。
刚来时壮志满怀,得到过老师同学的肯定,不过还是不会社交。后来交到了一些酒肉朋友,也并没有让我快乐些,尽管我跟他们一起喝过酒抽过烟飞过叶子,他们带我体验了一些事,我总是顾虑重重,半放纵半犯怂。很佩服二凡,自己买酒一个人在房里喝,肆意伤心肆意酣畅。我还没自己买过酒,喝酒每次都大家一起,所以我不敢太醉,也算是件好事。第一次抽大麻,我不敢吸太多,吸两口就觉得呛得慌,也不知道嗨了没,大概没抽多少没什么感觉。不禁想到第一次抽烟,怕得要死,觉得吸一口就会上瘾,刚点燃没过肺就心惊肉跳地掐了,讲给人听还被笑。我知道出国难免寂寞,幸好有他们也不算无聊。
当然他们也让我痛苦,我总觉得朋友是特别重的词,他们跟我的内心其实没法碰撞,他们把我当朋友很看重我(也许吧),我觉得也不过是社交,我深知我的内心有种强烈欲望,那是个无底洞,他们任何一个都没法满足我,所以我不重视他们,对他们不抱有期待。我总觉得自己很冷酷无情。真的觉得很寂寞痛苦的时候
we are human. we cannot be alone. though we feel lonely occasionally.we keep silent sometimes.but it is impossible to pretend to be a dumb. we need friends and we need love.friends can give us courage to do what we really want to. so embrace yourself as you are because you are perfect in your world. no one can be a hero all the time. even a hero can be confused and at a loss. relationships push us forward.
“壁花少年”I'm busy trying to participate”
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