一部片子分三次还未看完，每次等女儿睡着后看一会，法国调调的片子总能把一地鸡毛拍的不那么悲情不那么鸡血。
看到克洛伊说她小时候就知道她母亲的婚外情，而且其实她父亲也知道，但选择隐忍，因为这是法国人的处世哲学，瞬间泪目，今天看到网红艺人二婚高调奢华的排场，追求自由和爱是一种奔放洒脱的美，隐忍照顾周全独善其身是另一种美。后者显然更难做到。
「I'm 90. Subtlety's not something that interests me.」
「If you do not love me, I shall not be loved.」
「Anytime anyone follows their heart, someone else gets their heart broken. There'e always detritus, always hurt, always pain. Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old.
People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There'e a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't need those people, because you don't.」
每个人都会自怜自哀，有时候会去责备自己的人生，甚至去怪罪命运不公，但是岁月已经蹉跎，伤痛已经被印刻，怎么办？
电影的开头是平淡的，一个失意绝望充满对父亲愤恨，一个经历坎坷颓废对爱失去希望的老男人Mathias就这么随着法国特有的乡村风情出现，导演慢慢的深入，将这个男人的故事展开……童年缺乏父母的爱，母亲有重度抑郁不断自杀不断抢救回来造成了青少年时期的忧郁，缺乏安全感，19岁亲眼看见母亲自杀而亡，一生伤痛，随后自杀未成，成年时3次婚姻的失败，酗酒，颓废，失去爱与被爱的权利，渴望温情但又把失败者的标签贴在自己的灵魂里，生活的起伏跌宕给了他良好的教养和狡黠的经验，看他迫不及待的想要卖房甚至去问Mathild夫人的私人医生Mathild夫人身体状况如何多么迫不及待的希望Mathild夫人早点归西，导演这里处理的很有意思，Mathias的演员也把老男人的滑头，敏感，刻画得栩栩如生……
当Mathias找到照片的一刻开始，电影慢慢将镜头的重心转到Mathild夫人身上，Mathias与Mathild夫人的几段对手戏都非常经典，没有歇斯底里的发泄，只有深切的悲伤
Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old. My father took every ounce of love he had and dumped it in Paris. People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There's a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't nedd those people. Because you don't.
《可爱老女人》my old lady
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